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Top Five Coming-of-Age Movies and ‘Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret’

April 28, 2023/ 94 min/ Sean Fennessey · Amanda Dobbins

Sean Fennessey and Amanda Dobbins review Kelly Fremon Craig's 'Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret' and David Lowery's 'Peter Pan & Wendy,' then trade top-five coming-of-age lists before Sean sits down with Fremon Craig herself.

24 films across 7 segments.

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'Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret'Judy Blume, adapted

Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret poster

Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret 2023

Directed by Kelly Fremon Craig, adapting Judy Blume's 1970 novel. Both hosts cried. Amanda credits the movie with fully realizing the mother and grandmother, who barely register as characters in the book's first-person, kid's-eye telling; Rachel McAdams and Kathy Bates get real arcs of their own, including a plotline about the mother's suburban restlessness that Blume based on her own life.

'Peter Pan & Wendy'streaming on Disney+

Peter Pan & Wendy poster

Peter Pan & Wendy 2023

David Lowery's live-action Disney adaptation. Both hosts pan it: flat performances, ugly digital sets, and a new Captain Hook backstory (raised as a Lost Boy, exiled by Peter) neither wanted. Sean says the few scenes shot on real locations are the only beautiful thing in the movie.

Peter Pan poster

Peter Pan 1953

The original animated film, referenced throughout. Amanda rewatched it and found the racial stereotyping much harder to sit with than she remembered, to the point she wouldn't show it to her son.

What else Disney has cominglive-action remakes, cont'd

The Little Mermaid poster

The Little Mermaid 2023

New character posters just dropped at CinemaCon; Sean says the trailer hasn't looked strong.

Snow White poster

Snow White 2025

Directed by Marc Webb, who made '500 Days of Summer' and the 2010s Spider-Man movies.

Mufasa: The Lion King poster

Mufasa: The Lion King 2024

Barry Jenkins directing; the hosts riff on which Shakespeare play it's secretly remaking (Richard III? Twelfth Night? Macbeth?) without landing on an answer.

Amanda's Top Five Coming-of-Age Moviesranked best to worst

Lady Bird poster
No. 1

Lady Bird 2017

No. 1. Greta Gerwig, Amanda's hero. Set in 2002, a year younger than Amanda was at the time, down to the Dave Matthews needle drops.

The Graduate poster
No. 2

The Graduate 1967

Shown to her at a conservative high school. The floating-underwater, lost-at-sea imagery has stuck with her ever since.

The Virgin Suicides poster
No. 3

The Virgin Suicides 2000

Her Sofia Coppola pick, adapted from Jeffrey Eugenides: a group of sisters' story told through the neighborhood boys watching them from outside.

Reality Bites poster
No. 4

Reality Bites 1994

Ben Stiller's Winona Ryder/Ethan Hawke/Ben Stiller love triangle. Amanda says it taught her what counted as cool in the '90s.

An Education poster
No. 5

An Education 2009

Carey Mulligan's breakout role, directed by Lone Scherfig: a high-achieving London teenager pulled into a more glamorous adult world before getting her life back on track.

Sean's Top Five Coming-of-Age Moviesranked best to worst

Dazed and Confused poster
No. 1

Dazed and Confused 1993

No. 1. Sean's favorite high school movie ever made; he's done a full 'Rewatchables' episode on it and interviewed Richard Linklater multiple times.

Boyz n the Hood poster
No. 2

Boyz n the Hood 1991

John Singleton's debut, made in his early 20s, with Laurence Fishburne as Furious Styles.

Water Lilies poster
No. 3

Water Lilies 2007

Céline Sciamma's debut feature, which Sean discovered after 'Portrait of a Lady on Fire': a girl chasing a spot on her town's synchronized swim team.

Paper Moon poster
No. 4

Paper Moon 1973

Peter Bogdanovich's black-and-white con-artist story, starring real-life father and daughter Ryan and Tatum O'Neal. Sean pairs it in his head with 'The Last Picture Show.'

Hoop Dreams poster
No. 5

Hoop Dreams 1994

Steve James' three-hour documentary following William Gates and Arthur Agee toward basketball scholarships out of Chicago.

Honorable mentionsthe ones that didn't make the list

Ferris Bueller's Day Off poster

Ferris Bueller's Day Off 1986

Sean's long-running argument: Cameron, not Ferris, is the one who actually changes in this movie.

The Breakfast Club poster

The Breakfast Club 1985

Shown in Amanda's high school too. Both hosts say it's less a personal coming-of-age story than portraiture of a whole social system.

Mean Girls poster

Mean Girls 2004

Amanda argues it belongs in a different bucket: more social satire than one character's personal reckoning.

Now and Then poster

Now and Then 1995

Sean's example of the kind of funny ensemble movie missing from both their lists.

In conversation

The Edge of Seventeen poster
Kelly Fremon Craig on

The Edge of Seventeen 2016

Her directorial debut, also about a teenage girl. After it did well, she read a lot of scripts before landing on Margaret, the first thing that gave her the 'I need to write this' feeling.

Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret poster
Kelly Fremon Craig on

Are You There, God? It's Me, Margaret 2023

She hadn't reread the book since she was 11; this time she related to the mother and grandmother instead. Judy Blume was involved throughout, reading drafts and visiting set. Hans Zimmer scored it through his longtime relationship with producer James L. Brooks. Abby Ryder Fortson was cast as Margaret after Fremon Craig saw a long line of girls for the part.

Also mentioned raised along the way

Sofia Coppola's other films Lost in TranslationMarie AntoinetteSomewhere

The Bogdanovich/Wenders thread The Last Picture ShowWhat's Up, Doc?Alice in the Cities

Linklater's other coming-of-age movies BoyhoodThe School of RockSlackerBefore SunriseBefore Sunset

Greta Gerwig's other films Little WomenFrances HaKicking and Screaming

Céline Sciamma's other films Portrait of a Lady on FirePetite Maman

Coming-of-age documentaries mentioned Judy Blume ForeverMinding the GapSpellboundJesus Camp

In passing A Room with a ViewBarbieFight ClubPete's DragonCasablanca

Not films filtered out: TV, games, ads

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